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Finding work after so long


The prospects of finding work after so long scares me. But I’m at a point now that I’m ready to try find something.
I’ve been out of work for 9 years due to mental health, being a full time carer and latterly grief. So to be at this point after everything to say I need to work to get some money to live is a huge step for me but it’s one that fills me with dread that I wound find something.
I feel lost in regards to what I actually want to do. My c.v is retail but I would ideally want to get away from that but I can’t say what I want to do.
I do volunteering twice a week working with people with special needs and do an art class once a week. I’ve got to a point in my life where I’ve been through so much and want to try something new.
I wasn’t happy in my last job and ultimately it cost me in every aspect of me. Mentally, physically and emotionally.
I know this sounds like a cover letter to a cv but I needed to get it out of my head and admit to myself that I’m scared and lost as to what I want to do job related. And what this next life chapter will be considering the previous.
I guess I’m saying that after so long I’m scared to put myself out there because of my mental health and wondering if I’ll be able to cope.

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