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Advent calendar update

Growing up my mum always had a “practical “ advent calendar. One that you filled yourself so we got new hair clips, pens, smellies, mini notepads that was always fun because it was filled with stuff that she knew we needed.
And as I’ve grown with knowledge of my mental health and taking time for myself it got me wondering the question ............

So as in the previous post I asked, Is the beauty product advent calendars worth there money if they make you take time out of your day to focus on you?

After thinking about that question and seeing what else was available it did make me wonder more that maybe if the calendars were more realistic in price than the sky rocket price they are then I may of got something other than a chocolate one.
But as it was I went for a gluten free chocolate calendar. Because one it was within my price range and two the thought of having something advent wise was better than nothing. I got advised to go gluten free middle of this year so I thought I’d try. I have to admit the allure of some “normal” chocolate calendars is appealing.

I might wait to see if there is any in the sales (I doubt it) and do a January count down instead.


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